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| Puppy Reese: Photo by Allison Jagow |
Just kidding. Ive got a plan.
Let me explain: Good friends of ours recently brought home an adorable little beagle/Labrador mix. Her name is Reese and shes 10 weeks old. And Sensi hates her.
Im calling step 1 in my plan to change this "Picnic in the park." Reese is still too young to go on our long walks, and for a couple weeks yet, she can only be around dogs who we know are up to date on vaccinations.
Heres the gist of my plan — Im going to tire Sensi out by taking him on the 2.5-mile walk in advance; go pick up Allison and Reese (Reese will be crated in the back of the Jeep) and head back to the park (not the dog park, just a dog-friendly park). Sensi and I will set up camp on a blanket while Allison walks Reese around a quiet, mostly unused picnic spot. She can practice a variety training stuff while tiring out Reese, while I work on getting Sensi to be calm and enjoy the outing via treat therapy. Im pulling out the big guns for this one — Ill have a variety of doggie-favorites in my picnic basket, from cooked chicken to frozen green beans (a favorite of his), cheese, perhaps a banana and some brand-spankin new toys from the dollar store for him to rip up. The idea is not to have the two dogs interact, but to get them used to enjoying themselves while being in the general vicinity of one another.
Now, for some background. Here it is, copied from an email I sent to fabulous dog trainer Nicole Herr for some moral support yesterday:
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| Sensi was a good nanny to puppy Ruger, about 4-months here |
If there was one thing Brent and I thought we knew about our dog beyond the shadow of a doubt, it was that he loves puppies. He used to be a total and complete nanny dog. As a younger dog, he was so good with puppies it was magical to watch. Hed splay out on his back, let the puppies chew on his lips and ears (even carried an 8-week-old Brittany around who had latched on to his droopy jowls). Hed alternate between playing with the puppies and trying to teach the puppies things. Hes tried to teach every puppy how to swim ... not with a whole lot of success, but he tried his little water-lovin heart out anyhow.
Hes been a "nanny" to four puppies in his lifetime and has met and played with many others too. One of the puppies lived with us for about six months. Puppy interaction probably dropped off about the time he was about four, though — by then, most all of our friends had gotten puppies.
A few months after we moved into our house in 2008 — the first time that just me, Brent and the dog finally all lived together — I brought home two foster puppies, 8-weeks-old. Ive always wanted to foster, but I wanted to do it even more for Sensi. He was five. I thought hed love having "his own" puppies to raise.
I brought the puppies into the house myself. He acted interested and excited, sniffed their butts and then walked away — out of the room completely, in fact. A few moments later, one of the puppies went to investigate him. When the puppy got close, Sensi bared his teeth and growled. We muzzled Sensi and I had Brent get him up on the couch. When the puppies walked by the couch, hed try to get up and get away from them — moving away from them on the couch. If they followed him, he growled. We later put him back in the bedroom. The following morning, we tried again. Sensi wanted nothing to do with those puppies. He snarled at them again through his muzzle when they got close, once seemed like if he was not muzzled it would have been a bite for sure. He employed all avoidance techniques. I decided it was not in the best interest of either the foster puppies or Sensi to continue onward and we brought the puppies back to another foster home that day. Weve figured that there was a big difference between those puppies and all previous puppies — he thought they were ours. Every other puppy he knew belonged to a friend of ours and clearly not us.
Since then, he has had no interactions with puppies.
On Saturday, Brent and I stopped by our friends house briefly to meet the puppy — 10 wk old female beagle/lab mix. When we came home, we let Sensi smell us and repeated the words: "Alan & Allisons puppy Reese" and "Friend." He knows the words Alan & Allison, he knows puppy, and he knows friend. He was excited, body language looked great.
On Tuesday, I brought Sensi over to Alan & Allisons to meet the puppy after a good 2.5-mile walk. He has only been there once, to pick up Allison for a walk, and never went inside their house. She brought the puppy out, let its butt drop down within reach of Sensi. Wearing muzzle and halti. He was very excited. I probably should have waited until he calmed down ... He sniffed the puppys butt, then immediately walked away from the puppy. He went straight into avoidance. The puppy walked in front of him at one point and peed, he leaned forward to sniff and she turned around, putting her face next to his. He snapped at her and, since he was muzzled, opted to use his big ol paw to give her a good whap. She yelped and jumped away. We then walked them up and down the street a couple times. Total avoidance — kept his body turned away from her, practically walking on an angle because of it, his head, never even got close to looking at her. If we stopped, he immediately sniffed the ground. The longer we stayed there, the more his tail tucked and body began crouching — like fear — even though she wasnt even within reach of him, and just before leaving, he went so far as to try to hide from her by crawling under the Jeep (and came out just covered in thick gobs of mud, which was lovely).
My next course of action is to do a sit-in with both dogs at the park. Ill have Sensi walked again, then have Allison and the puppy meet us. Im going to bring a blanket and set up shop on the grass with Sensi on leash. Im going to wait for Sensi to totally calm down — like, take a nap — while Allison works out some energy with the puppy in the general vicinity. Once Sensi is calm and puppy is de-energized, well walk the dogs past each other, around each other, etc.
As the puppy gets older, well start doing our longer walks together.
Right now, I have no hope that theyll ever get along, but darnit, Sensi will learn this puppy is to be tolerated.
Im so heart broken, and my confidence has taken a bit of a beating. I so wanted to see my nanny dog return.
Can I do this?
Hes been a "nanny" to four puppies in his lifetime and has met and played with many others too. One of the puppies lived with us for about six months. Puppy interaction probably dropped off about the time he was about four, though — by then, most all of our friends had gotten puppies.
A few months after we moved into our house in 2008 — the first time that just me, Brent and the dog finally all lived together — I brought home two foster puppies, 8-weeks-old. Ive always wanted to foster, but I wanted to do it even more for Sensi. He was five. I thought hed love having "his own" puppies to raise.
I brought the puppies into the house myself. He acted interested and excited, sniffed their butts and then walked away — out of the room completely, in fact. A few moments later, one of the puppies went to investigate him. When the puppy got close, Sensi bared his teeth and growled. We muzzled Sensi and I had Brent get him up on the couch. When the puppies walked by the couch, hed try to get up and get away from them — moving away from them on the couch. If they followed him, he growled. We later put him back in the bedroom. The following morning, we tried again. Sensi wanted nothing to do with those puppies. He snarled at them again through his muzzle when they got close, once seemed like if he was not muzzled it would have been a bite for sure. He employed all avoidance techniques. I decided it was not in the best interest of either the foster puppies or Sensi to continue onward and we brought the puppies back to another foster home that day. Weve figured that there was a big difference between those puppies and all previous puppies — he thought they were ours. Every other puppy he knew belonged to a friend of ours and clearly not us.
Since then, he has had no interactions with puppies.
On Saturday, Brent and I stopped by our friends house briefly to meet the puppy — 10 wk old female beagle/lab mix. When we came home, we let Sensi smell us and repeated the words: "Alan & Allisons puppy Reese" and "Friend." He knows the words Alan & Allison, he knows puppy, and he knows friend. He was excited, body language looked great.
On Tuesday, I brought Sensi over to Alan & Allisons to meet the puppy after a good 2.5-mile walk. He has only been there once, to pick up Allison for a walk, and never went inside their house. She brought the puppy out, let its butt drop down within reach of Sensi. Wearing muzzle and halti. He was very excited. I probably should have waited until he calmed down ... He sniffed the puppys butt, then immediately walked away from the puppy. He went straight into avoidance. The puppy walked in front of him at one point and peed, he leaned forward to sniff and she turned around, putting her face next to his. He snapped at her and, since he was muzzled, opted to use his big ol paw to give her a good whap. She yelped and jumped away. We then walked them up and down the street a couple times. Total avoidance — kept his body turned away from her, practically walking on an angle because of it, his head, never even got close to looking at her. If we stopped, he immediately sniffed the ground. The longer we stayed there, the more his tail tucked and body began crouching — like fear — even though she wasnt even within reach of him, and just before leaving, he went so far as to try to hide from her by crawling under the Jeep (and came out just covered in thick gobs of mud, which was lovely).
My next course of action is to do a sit-in with both dogs at the park. Ill have Sensi walked again, then have Allison and the puppy meet us. Im going to bring a blanket and set up shop on the grass with Sensi on leash. Im going to wait for Sensi to totally calm down — like, take a nap — while Allison works out some energy with the puppy in the general vicinity. Once Sensi is calm and puppy is de-energized, well walk the dogs past each other, around each other, etc.
As the puppy gets older, well start doing our longer walks together.
Right now, I have no hope that theyll ever get along, but darnit, Sensi will learn this puppy is to be tolerated.
Im so heart broken, and my confidence has taken a bit of a beating. I so wanted to see my nanny dog return.
Can I do this?
Nicole approved my plan and advised me to take it very slowly. That I can do. Im not really clear on why Sensi decided he doesnt like Reese, but as Ive said in previous posts, the "why" doesnt matter nearly as much as the "what are you going to do about it."
Nanny dog Sensi wont be returning. Sensi may well be in that senior citizen stage of his life and simply isnt interested in having youthful puppies around. But theres no reason that these two dogs cant learn to at least be around each other, and maybe, with time and lots of solid work, theyll even learn to like each other a little bit. I wont hold out hope for that, but I am determined that we will be able to walk these dogs together.
Ill keep you posted on our progress throughout the summer!
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